About a year ago, when it was a particularly hard week, my hubby brought me this cup of coffee when I was in our room trying to have some quiet time. In the moment, my eyes filled with tears, as I knew he was telling me something. He was giving me support in such a...
Recently, our family experienced a huge loss. It rocked me to the core, as it was sudden and very unexpected. It was the Monday before we were scheduled to leave for a summer vacation with my two brothers and their families. We had rented two houses on the Oregon...
Moments matter. They happen all the time, and if we are present when they happen, we can find the magic within. Sometimes these moments are quiet with tears, and sometimes they are doing a celebration dance at a basketball game. I have had the privilege of taking care...
Today we are once again focusing on the amazing siblings that surround our special needs kiddos. These siblings are such an integral part of the lives of those with special needs. They can challenge them and support them throughout their growing years. They often...
As most of you moms and dads know, March 21st was World Down Syndrome Day!!! This is a big celebration in our house. This year, surprisingly enough, it was Dollar Store for the win! The sock selection is amazing! We sported York peppermint patties, space jam, and cute...
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose (Romans 8:28) This is a verse that is so near to my heart. I must constantly remind myself that God is working for our good, even when I...
Before I launch into these next few posts, it is important to tell you that they might be tender and may even trigger feelings you may or may not have dealt with. I believe as parents, we do the best that we can. Sometimes things are just hard no matter how much we...
“Parallel warriors,” I call them! They are strong. They are tender. They are empathetic. They are generous. Who am I talking about? The amazing siblings that surround a special needs kiddo. These siblings create a story all their own and it needs telling. These...
The holidays can be such a wonderful time, but there are also times it can be hard, confusing, and cause deep grief. In fact, the holidays, filled with joy, can also be a reminder of our unique family situation, and our limitations. For years, we have tried different...
I love the Holidays! I always have. I remember all the little things that my mom, who was a single mama, did to make the season so much fun. It was a special time, rich with tradition, even when money was tight. I could not wait to hand some of those little things...
Hi there! We are the crazy cool parents to 5 amazing and crazy cool kiddos. But, first, we are Dan and Elizabeth Thorndike – married 15 years and living this life one moment at a time. We have a full and blessed life, but we are clumsily tackling a journey we never foresaw ourselves living.
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